Earlier this year I developed a new test of boyfriend compatibility that I started referring to as “The Pancake Test”. It came into maturity on the AIDS ride as I found myself crushing on a boy who worked at the SF AIDS Foundation, because once I applied The Pancake Test to him I could barely [...]
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The Pancake Test
03-Dec-08It’s not you, it’s me.
11-Jul-08I may be brave, courageous, adventurous, outrageous, bold, daring in many aspects of my life and the way that I live it, but for whatever reason I seem to be incapable of properly dealing with relationships.
For the past week I’ve been killing myself trying to figure out what to do about Ben… it was [...]
Our Story.
09-Jul-08It all started off as a game,
an exercise in my lack of shame.
But from it came a new and ever lasting flame.
Every single moment I remember, frame by frame.
One weeks time, it was about,
my feelings so immediate, so devout
“for sure” I was “without a doubt”
My heart and mind filled with love throughout.
Soon it came time [...]